Are You Being The Best Person You Can Be?

We tell our kids to do what we say but not what we do? Why is that? Why are you not being the best person you can be? Are you lazy? Do you hang out with other lazy people. What if your kids were behaving like you are, being lazy and unproductive. You would certainly not stand for that because you can see something that they cannot. You are guiding them as parents but you are no longer as an adult being responsible and learning and growing!

What type of friends do you hang out with? Are they successful and happy. You know that if your own kids hang out with kids who are lazy and prone for failure not to encourage your child to hang out with them. So why do as adults hang out with the wrong crowd?

We tell our kids to keep active and encourage them to read and do activities yet as adults we do not reap what we sow as well? Lots of adults sit down and just watch TV all evening and complain they don't have time.

I will give you an example of managing time: If you take a piece of paper 9 X 11 inches and turn it sideways so it is 11 X 9 and then fold it in 3 equal sections. Then look at those three sections as 8 hour blocks of time. The first section is 8 hours of sleep. The second section is 8 hours of work. The third section is 8 hours left in your day to accomplish your tasks. We each have the same 24 hours in a day and what do you fill up your 8 hours with?

Be open to doing some changes and then you will get different results - results you are looking for. Remember to do baby steps in the initial stages for all out massive action results can be daunting for most and they will likely give up. You need to develop habits slowly. Tackle some project you want in small manageable portions. An hour a day or even just 20 minutes to start. By now focusing on "you" and seeing yourself as able to handle the project, you will have success and your kids will benefit from your improvements, from what you sow.

So take the time now before your time is up. Don't worry about the how, just decide what areas of your life that could be better, be improved. You will soon discover after deciding to do something the answers will appear, the courses, the books, the new friends and the opportunities. As one door closes another one will open up - trust and have faith.