How To Have More Gratitude In Your Life NOW!

How to have more gratitude in your life? It is a frequently asked question. Being grateful is to accept the current situation you are in. If you are having trouble with acceptance start there. Face your current situation because it is blocking you from the uplifting feeling of accomplishment.

Gratitude is feeling so good that you accomplished something regardless of what your current situation was. Whether it was relationship issue or something as simple as completing a task around your home. Set a goal each week to accomplish the resistant blocks that have been holding you back.

What will happen is a relief, called gratitude. You actually feel more raised compared to the situation you were in and now you have possibilities of having a greater outcome. I make thousands of dollars each time I have a strong feeling of gratitude. The stronger and longer the feeling of gratitude, the better the results.

However, it has to be genuine. You can't be pretending to be grateful. You actually have to release the resistance, the block that is holding you from this emotion. Fear of failure often holds people from having success because they didn't know that they have to face it.

Luckily, each situation you are in each day, you can accomplish. Remember in grade school when you had a big test or some obstacle that seemed incredibly rough. Well, if you today were put back into that situation in the past with what you know now, you could easily face the situation and have a wonderful outcome. Because you faced that fear and recognize it you know what to do and do it without the fear or struggle. It comes naturally for you now. Personal development is learning and growing from each situation you are in.

Each week assess your blocks and face them gently and with the expectation that a positive outcome will appear. Gratitude or relief will flood in every time you accomplish or face the situation. So look forward to the struggle, for once you face it, you won't have to struggle with it anymore! Have a great week, I know you can do it!

How to Avoid The Pitfalls of Law Of Attraction

A pitfall I encountered with Law of Attraction was the "ideal" or my perception of not thinking, speaking or talking of any negative things. As I grew to my understanding of the power of positive thinking I suppressed all negative thinking and feelings! I thought I can't be thinking anything negative at all because then I may start attracting a negative result. I thought or believed I was supposed to be learning how to be more perfect, more positive and never again experience negative emotions! What happened for me was a bottle up effect of suppressed negative emotions.

Luckily, we all know we are not instant manifestors and if a thought pops into your head it will not instantly manfiest into your reality. I discovered a positive way to disperse the negative energy I encountered. I would journal about the negative things in my life and ask for help in regards to a positive and gentle way for a solution. By writing down in the journal about a negative experience I released it and forgave myself. You are helping yourself work through the issues as they come up.


By being genuine and authentic, I gave myself permission to experience "life" as it comes along I am able to face the small things that come up so they don't grow into bigger and bigger problems. So next time something comes, excuse yourself for a few minutes when you can and in a quiet space write down and release. Or perhaps you may find another way to release that works best for you. The point is not to release it on other people or negatively take it out on others.

For example, my teenage daughter and I got into a brief and negative argument which lead her to retreat to her room. I sat down and wrote out that I need some help here and guide me as to what to do to fix the situation? So about 20 minutes later I was drawn to take her clean laundry clothes into her room. By then, she was on the floor in her bedroom organizing jigsaw pieces into two piles. I was guided to quietly fold her clothes and "hang out" and see what happens while she was doing this. What happened next was pure magic! She invited me to help her find the edges of the jigsaw pieces along with her in the box. So I gladly sat down with her on the floor and went through the box and we never had to discuss the "blow out" we had earlier. To me, whatever it was - I can't even remember - was over and I learned from that experience. I learned to ask for a gentle and positive way to solve the problem and all I did was follow my intuition to guide me.

The stillness we have inside of us allows us to hear the wisdom to really enjoy the game of life. However, it is a choice for each one of us to practice being quiet to allow the wisdom to come to us. A still pond is a lot more receptive than a raging river. Learn to quiet yourself and use that to guide you - not the labels we "think" we have to live up to. Playing this game of life is to experience the wonderful feelings we get from emotions. It isn't all about being "rosy" all the time. It is about learning to experience how to play the game in the first place. We are here to experience life - not just sit on the sidelines of life watching.

How To Manifest and Create Flow (Synchronicity) In Your Life!

How to manifest and create flow in your life. Well, it should start off with a basic understanding of what flow is that you want? What areas in your life do you want flow? Once you spend a few minutes writing down a few sentences you can start.

Really? Yes. In your day to day life, describe how you want your day to look like thinking about being in flow - going with the stream of life, not bucking the current. Focus on words like being in harmony, gentle, loving, and positive.

For example, let's say you want more harmony with the kids in the home. Describe what that might look like for you. Or perhaps you want people you work with to be more co-operative with you. So describe a scenario and how people are going along with your suggestions as an example. This applies to any situation in your life.

The next step is start to be appreciative of all that you have that is WORKING right now in your favour! Start saying "thank you" to the Universe everytime something works out for you. I personally do both. I will say thank you and then write it down perhaps compiling it with a few together and thanking the Universe for such a wonderful way it always works out for me.

So now you are in the flow by focusing on what you want that is working and by appreciating it showing up. You are manifesting your results and co-creating with the Universe. You can start with simple things like getting parking spots or that someone called you when you were thinking about them. Those things happen to us and we forget to say "thank you" to the Universe so they don't come consistently because we haven't consistently said "thank you". Once you start to get into the HABIT of focusing on creating and manifesting you will notice more evidence of things working for you. In order for me to able to work on silencing the monkey chatter, I consistently meditate daily and consistently daily write down things I want to see happen.

This past weekend everytime I went out to drive somewhere the weather was good for driving and shortly after I returned home the snow started to fall and the winds picked up! Being in flow can be something simple like being at the right place at the right time more and more consistently.

Remember it has to start off somewhere and some people may say it was a coincidence but what happens when you know it and can see it happening more and more you start to build up BELIEF in yourself. You build up confidence and trust and that is what connects you to the Universe. By trusting yourself, you allow the Universe to do the "work" for you. To line things up you want. By having faith and trust you keep the flow going strong and it works for you. By not having trust or faith or lack of confidence you cut off the flow or let it flow around you not bringing you what you want. So have the faith and trust first. Take it slow and easy and ask for gentle and positive ways to bring flow to you.

So pay attention to what is going on that you do want and say thank you and also remember to ask by writing down what it is you want, otherwise you are leaving it up to the Universe and you will get the same old the same old again and again.

Enjoy manifesting your life now to what you do want and make yourself an exuberant life.

Accomplish Your Goals - Here is HOW - Finish What You Started

In order to accomplish your goals, LEARN to finish what you started! Are you finding that you are not getting the results you want in your life? Look around your home and see for yourself if there is evidence of this in your own home. For example, do you have unfinished projects you started that are looming over you?

So often we will put the intention out there to start something and somewhere along the way we get side tracked and either abandon the project or put it off! Can you see the project lying there right now as you read this? Is it chipping away at you and bothering you? Even if you think that because it is in the garage or in the basement, the fact of the matter is, you haven't dealt with it. It is in your mind regardless of where the project is. So you have to somehow either deal with the project in your mind or physically finish the project.

Ever notice what a relief you feel when you tackle a project and see it through! That feeling will propel you forward and you will get a flood of success by finishing projects that you have started. Finding the relief and feeling it lifts you up! Now you are open to more. Remember the saying, "when one door closes another one opens". This applies here.

So what is nagging at you to complete? Deal with it and move on. That is how to create success and get unstuck! It can be anything and it may be pretty simple. Like staining that deck you put off or donating some un-used physical equipment! By taking a simple action step of completing a project you free space and then more can flow to you.

I look forward to hearing from you using simple strategies like this. Learn to help yourself achieve success in all areas of your life. Have fun on your journey of life.

Help Yourself And Then You Can Help Others

You can't help the poor by being one of them. So many people put others first and discount their own value about themselves. I occasionally have a conversation with someone who is poor and would like to be comfortable and help others.

In order to help others you have to help yourself first. In a position of lack, you cannot help others accept to comfort them. What they need is to catch your enthusiasm and hopefulness. Being hopeful starts to increase value in yourself. The process to get from here to there has to start somewhere. So by having hope you start to increase momentum and that is what is truly inspiring.

So whether this is you or not or you may occasionally have conversations with people who have poverty consciousness, by being hopeful yourself you transfer your enthusiasm. A great way to have hope is to imagine yourself already accomplishing your dreams. Pick a goal or dream and start to let your mind wander about it. Imagine how you feel when it happens and start thinking about it all the time. Let it be the catalyst of enthusiasm and excitement. Some people put together dream boards or write it all down on paper. Be persistent and consistent that it is happening for you. When you go to bed at night spend a few minutes acknowledging the dream and looking forward to when it comes and as well first thing in the morning before you get out of bed put your smile on your face and build up the enthusiasm for it.

By launching into the world of imagination you get inspired and then the ideas start to flow of how to get there. The solutions will appear by your continued belief in yourself. We all have a great powerful imagination that can inspire all of us if we stop the monkey chatter of negativity. Whenever you find yourself saying "but" stop right there. The dreams don't have a "but". You have to remember that your goals are coming and not be attached to the how. That part is not your work. Enthusiasm is your work. Keep up the excitement and joy and belief and the how comes to you.

Over Reacting To Stress, Reduce Your Stress and Live A Successful Life!

Over reacting to stress, reduce your stress and live a successful life!

There is an old tale of a very wise man who always responded to every situation with the phrase, "don't matter". For instance, one day his prized stallion ran off from the stables. His friends were so upset for him, but his response was "don't matter". Then as a result the following week, the stallion came back with a herd of mares! Again the friends response was about how lucky he is and his response was the same, "don't matter".

If you treat everything in your life without over reacting to each and every situation your situations become more positive each and every time. So how does one go about becoming a calm and trusting person? Especially in a world filled with untrust and quick response reactions.

First of all, try to start off with the little things in life, which are really important. When you accidently spill something or knock something and it breaks, don't REACT. Stay calm and remember that there will be a reward for your patience and understanding. Now after awhile I found that soon when the bigger things may start to happen, you already have been practicing on the little things and you soon start to be more patient and understanding and know that everything is going to be okay IF you don't REACT - you wait and see.

It is interesting that as well in order for me to achieve this calming and patient point of view, I had to eliminate some of the negative contributing factors in my life. Like watching the TV news each and every day. That in itself was hard as well as not to read the newspapers, but I did it! As a results, today I am calm, I am relaxed and don't have knee jerk reactions to situations that I see others still respond to.

It takes effort and I know that the rewards in life are worth it! So start today to eliminate and practice patience and trust. Have a wonderful journey to success!

Law of Attraction - Do You Believe It?

Do you believe in Law of Attraction? I find myself wondering how many people out there believe that their thoughts, their actions, are creating their own results in their lives. Yes, I believe. When I am outside of my home and interacting with teachers, parents, or relatives and neighbors, they all seem unaware of what they are doing.

The majority of people are not really conscious of their own thinking...understanding that the most powerful law out there is the Law of Attraction. I remember when I first heard that I was dismissive. I thought for sure that the Law of Gravity was stronger. It took me awhile. Luckily for me however I am finally getting a better understanding of how powerful it really is, and how powerful I really am in working with it.

The other day I had an opportunity to share a car ride with a parent of my daughter's friend. I was a little unsure about how the conversation in a car would be because once people have your attention they usually talk about all the things going wrong in their lives. And that is exactly what you don't want to be doing. Anyway...this time I turned the tables. I decided to start talking about how lucky I am. I talked about how driving on a car trip during the winter we missed all the snow storms and how fortunate we were to have people who were helpful when we were confused, that sort of thing. So now she thinks I am a lucky magnet. I even shared with her about us winning a few times at the casino. So she promptly told me she never wins...guess what will happen when she goes gambling next time.

I do have to laugh inside about how I am living a dual life. I am using the Law of Attraction always and so is everyone else, they just don't know it yet. They think when they get good luck or bad, that they are not at the cause of it. Guess what - you are. You are always at the cause of everything in your life - just how am I going to go about letting everyone else know.

It would be better if everyone knew - then we could all enjoy the game so much better. Yes, I call life a game. If you are lighthearted and relaxed about life then by Law of Attraction, you will get more of what you are BEING. So treat life like a game, enjoy who you meet and learn from each experience. Enjoy the moment of being You.

You could help me out and let others know about this blog...perhaps it may help be the click they need to understand the game. Have a great day.