Want To Overcome Your FEARS?

Do you want to easily overcome your fears? We all have fears. Some of us have never faced them, too afraid. When push comes to shove one day you may have to face some of those fears so I have a helpful suggestion for you. You may want to face some fears this week, so this will be very helpful.

A couple of years ago I remember going to the movie theatre to see an intense dark movie and decided I would be prepared for the movie. I have always been afraid of scary movies or intense drama movies. So on the way to the theatre I silently asked that I "enjoy" the movie and not receive any of the negative or intense "vibes" from the movie. It worked! While other people in the theatre were shaken and holding that negative energy, I was totally free of it and enjoyed it. I only asked maybe a couple of times and trusted that my message was received.

I also had an opportunity to ride a few rollercoasters recently. So again I mentally prepared myself to enjoy the ride and to trust that my message was received and again I was shielded and could enjoy the ride. I did ask each time I was about to board a new one so I did repeat it often, but I was not nagging or fearful, just matter of factly about this.

Now you can apply this to any situation you are in. I suggest you ask before the situation arises. Before you enter the building. Before you drive your car. Before you make that phone call. It takes practice on your part and trust and faith. It sure is a lot more fun when you enjoy the experience and not at all be caught up in the drama.

So if you are feeling intense or drama of your current situation, you may want to do this. It works. I started on something simple like watching a movie or perhaps reading a book may be a good start. But for me I built up this relationship of trust that I was okay and overtime I learned to shield myself when needed.

Enjoy the ride and excitement and leave the worry behind. All the best!

Law of Attraction Works Best When You Make The Best of It

Law of Attraction works best when you make the best of every situation. By being your best no matter what, you will end up with a very positive result more consistently. When you think of balance and how there is ebbs and flows to everything this may start to make some sense. For every negative situation, there is an opposite, a magnificent positive outcome. It is there for you, a gift.

I remember one time a number of years ago my car had a flat tire. Well, instead of going into panic mode or start blaming, I just simply made a few phone calls. First, I called to get a tow truck driver. Second, I called and left a voice mail message on my husband's office number explaining that at this point, I will be late in picking him up. We used to car pool together and he usually was waiting for me to pick him up at this point. I then phoned my mother to ask her to pick up my daughter from the daycare because I may be late.

So when the tow truck driver showed up, he couldn't open up my tire lock but he did refill the air in my flat tire so I could drive it to my dealership to have them fix the tire. After leaving another phone message I drove clear across town to our dealership to have my tired repaired. I then drove back to his office building parking lot being really really late and he wasn't there. He showed up shortly after I did apologizing to me that he is so sorry he is late. His meeting ran late and he had to take back all the display materials to the other building so he never got any of my messages. How funny.

So in the end, my daughter had dinner at grandma's while Warren and I ate dinner in a restaurant and celebrated our success! It will always work out much better than you can imagine if you have faith and belief. Enjoy yourself and cherish how wonderful life works out for you.

Did You Know that Money Beliefs and Self Worth Are Two Separate Issues

The amount of money you earn should be separate from your level of self worth. It is a common assumption for many people that the more money they make the higher degree of self worth they have.

So what happens when you are in a financial slump, your level of self worth goes down. So detach from this belief immediately. Money is a form of energy, it is our own belief system of whether to attach a negative or a positive belief with money. Look around you and see if this applies to you.

I had a conversation with someone who said their marriage broke down because of the lack of money in the marriage. And consequently that individual failed in a business venture. The lesson is to detach from money as a source of your happiness and self worth.

Once you see this detachment then your next business venture and relationship will flourish because you have a balanced self esteem and have learned the lesson of what money truly is. It is a tool, an energy, it is up to you to decide how it will be of service for you on your journey.

Develop your self - self development evenly and with balance, love and patience.

How To Have More Gratitude In Your Life NOW!

How to have more gratitude in your life? It is a frequently asked question. Being grateful is to accept the current situation you are in. If you are having trouble with acceptance start there. Face your current situation because it is blocking you from the uplifting feeling of accomplishment.

Gratitude is feeling so good that you accomplished something regardless of what your current situation was. Whether it was relationship issue or something as simple as completing a task around your home. Set a goal each week to accomplish the resistant blocks that have been holding you back.

What will happen is a relief, called gratitude. You actually feel more raised compared to the situation you were in and now you have possibilities of having a greater outcome. I make thousands of dollars each time I have a strong feeling of gratitude. The stronger and longer the feeling of gratitude, the better the results.

However, it has to be genuine. You can't be pretending to be grateful. You actually have to release the resistance, the block that is holding you from this emotion. Fear of failure often holds people from having success because they didn't know that they have to face it.

Luckily, each situation you are in each day, you can accomplish. Remember in grade school when you had a big test or some obstacle that seemed incredibly rough. Well, if you today were put back into that situation in the past with what you know now, you could easily face the situation and have a wonderful outcome. Because you faced that fear and recognize it you know what to do and do it without the fear or struggle. It comes naturally for you now. Personal development is learning and growing from each situation you are in.

Each week assess your blocks and face them gently and with the expectation that a positive outcome will appear. Gratitude or relief will flood in every time you accomplish or face the situation. So look forward to the struggle, for once you face it, you won't have to struggle with it anymore! Have a great week, I know you can do it!

How to Avoid The Pitfalls of Law Of Attraction

A pitfall I encountered with Law of Attraction was the "ideal" or my perception of not thinking, speaking or talking of any negative things. As I grew to my understanding of the power of positive thinking I suppressed all negative thinking and feelings! I thought I can't be thinking anything negative at all because then I may start attracting a negative result. I thought or believed I was supposed to be learning how to be more perfect, more positive and never again experience negative emotions! What happened for me was a bottle up effect of suppressed negative emotions.

Luckily, we all know we are not instant manifestors and if a thought pops into your head it will not instantly manfiest into your reality. I discovered a positive way to disperse the negative energy I encountered. I would journal about the negative things in my life and ask for help in regards to a positive and gentle way for a solution. By writing down in the journal about a negative experience I released it and forgave myself. You are helping yourself work through the issues as they come up.


By being genuine and authentic, I gave myself permission to experience "life" as it comes along I am able to face the small things that come up so they don't grow into bigger and bigger problems. So next time something comes, excuse yourself for a few minutes when you can and in a quiet space write down and release. Or perhaps you may find another way to release that works best for you. The point is not to release it on other people or negatively take it out on others.

For example, my teenage daughter and I got into a brief and negative argument which lead her to retreat to her room. I sat down and wrote out that I need some help here and guide me as to what to do to fix the situation? So about 20 minutes later I was drawn to take her clean laundry clothes into her room. By then, she was on the floor in her bedroom organizing jigsaw pieces into two piles. I was guided to quietly fold her clothes and "hang out" and see what happens while she was doing this. What happened next was pure magic! She invited me to help her find the edges of the jigsaw pieces along with her in the box. So I gladly sat down with her on the floor and went through the box and we never had to discuss the "blow out" we had earlier. To me, whatever it was - I can't even remember - was over and I learned from that experience. I learned to ask for a gentle and positive way to solve the problem and all I did was follow my intuition to guide me.

The stillness we have inside of us allows us to hear the wisdom to really enjoy the game of life. However, it is a choice for each one of us to practice being quiet to allow the wisdom to come to us. A still pond is a lot more receptive than a raging river. Learn to quiet yourself and use that to guide you - not the labels we "think" we have to live up to. Playing this game of life is to experience the wonderful feelings we get from emotions. It isn't all about being "rosy" all the time. It is about learning to experience how to play the game in the first place. We are here to experience life - not just sit on the sidelines of life watching.

How To Manifest and Create Flow (Synchronicity) In Your Life!

How to manifest and create flow in your life. Well, it should start off with a basic understanding of what flow is that you want? What areas in your life do you want flow? Once you spend a few minutes writing down a few sentences you can start.

Really? Yes. In your day to day life, describe how you want your day to look like thinking about being in flow - going with the stream of life, not bucking the current. Focus on words like being in harmony, gentle, loving, and positive.

For example, let's say you want more harmony with the kids in the home. Describe what that might look like for you. Or perhaps you want people you work with to be more co-operative with you. So describe a scenario and how people are going along with your suggestions as an example. This applies to any situation in your life.

The next step is start to be appreciative of all that you have that is WORKING right now in your favour! Start saying "thank you" to the Universe everytime something works out for you. I personally do both. I will say thank you and then write it down perhaps compiling it with a few together and thanking the Universe for such a wonderful way it always works out for me.

So now you are in the flow by focusing on what you want that is working and by appreciating it showing up. You are manifesting your results and co-creating with the Universe. You can start with simple things like getting parking spots or that someone called you when you were thinking about them. Those things happen to us and we forget to say "thank you" to the Universe so they don't come consistently because we haven't consistently said "thank you". Once you start to get into the HABIT of focusing on creating and manifesting you will notice more evidence of things working for you. In order for me to able to work on silencing the monkey chatter, I consistently meditate daily and consistently daily write down things I want to see happen.

This past weekend everytime I went out to drive somewhere the weather was good for driving and shortly after I returned home the snow started to fall and the winds picked up! Being in flow can be something simple like being at the right place at the right time more and more consistently.

Remember it has to start off somewhere and some people may say it was a coincidence but what happens when you know it and can see it happening more and more you start to build up BELIEF in yourself. You build up confidence and trust and that is what connects you to the Universe. By trusting yourself, you allow the Universe to do the "work" for you. To line things up you want. By having faith and trust you keep the flow going strong and it works for you. By not having trust or faith or lack of confidence you cut off the flow or let it flow around you not bringing you what you want. So have the faith and trust first. Take it slow and easy and ask for gentle and positive ways to bring flow to you.

So pay attention to what is going on that you do want and say thank you and also remember to ask by writing down what it is you want, otherwise you are leaving it up to the Universe and you will get the same old the same old again and again.

Enjoy manifesting your life now to what you do want and make yourself an exuberant life.

Accomplish Your Goals - Here is HOW - Finish What You Started

In order to accomplish your goals, LEARN to finish what you started! Are you finding that you are not getting the results you want in your life? Look around your home and see for yourself if there is evidence of this in your own home. For example, do you have unfinished projects you started that are looming over you?

So often we will put the intention out there to start something and somewhere along the way we get side tracked and either abandon the project or put it off! Can you see the project lying there right now as you read this? Is it chipping away at you and bothering you? Even if you think that because it is in the garage or in the basement, the fact of the matter is, you haven't dealt with it. It is in your mind regardless of where the project is. So you have to somehow either deal with the project in your mind or physically finish the project.

Ever notice what a relief you feel when you tackle a project and see it through! That feeling will propel you forward and you will get a flood of success by finishing projects that you have started. Finding the relief and feeling it lifts you up! Now you are open to more. Remember the saying, "when one door closes another one opens". This applies here.

So what is nagging at you to complete? Deal with it and move on. That is how to create success and get unstuck! It can be anything and it may be pretty simple. Like staining that deck you put off or donating some un-used physical equipment! By taking a simple action step of completing a project you free space and then more can flow to you.

I look forward to hearing from you using simple strategies like this. Learn to help yourself achieve success in all areas of your life. Have fun on your journey of life.